The Thin Line of Instant Messenger

In person, it's quite easy to know who you're talking to.  You're at lunch or at a bar, and the person you're looking at is the person you're talking to.  Granted, there may be someone eavesdropping or the person you're talking to may be calling the police because they have a restraining order against you ... but the point is this: in order to change conversations, you must do something physically with your body: turn to the left or right, walk to another table, etc.

Additionally, if you pause a conversation, you don't usually forget who you're talking to when you'd like to restart communication.  Your eyes see who's in front of you and they tell your brain, which usually (unless incredibly intoxicated) will deduce which person you're conversing with.

The same cannot be said about instant messenger.  For me, sometimes, there is a very thin line between conversing between your friend and your boss.  And depending on which window your clumsy mouse has chosen to select, you may get a very different response.

Case in point:

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Posted 1 year ago

Monday Update

The Weekend that was: Hectic.  Flew up to San Francisco with Erin on Friday, then drove around all weekend looking at apartments.  We picked our favorite and applied Sunday.  We fell in love with the Inner Sunset district of SF -- hopefully, it will be where we live!

Where I am at the moment: At work in our San Francisco office ... planning software releases and constantly checking my phone to see if we've gotten a call on that place yet.

On my To Do list this week: Well, that depends.  If this place falls through, I guess I won't go climbing next weekend, which means I need to create a new list of places to visit next weekend.  Aside from that, we've got a big software release at work Wednesday.  So I'm prepping for that, as well as doing planning for upcoming releases.

Procrastinating about: Hah!  Same as last week: "Unfortunately, I don’t have to luxury to procrastinate about anything during the next 30 days."

Music that seems to catch my attention this past week: This past weekend was spent driving around in the rental car, listening to "Live 105" (105.3) here in San Francisco.  It was so-so.  Maybe 1 out of 5 songs was decent.  The rest was cluttered with Incubus, Sublime, and other worthless crap.  Been liking the MGMT record more and more.

Next Trip: We'll see.  Either I'm heading to Red Rocks, Nevada to go climbing with my buddy Aron, or I'm coming back up to SF to apartment hunt.  I'd prefer the former.

How I’m feeling about this week:
Stressed, nervous, excited.

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Posted 1 year ago

Desert, Stars, and the TSA

We had big plans last weekend of taking a group of our friends out to Joshua Tree.  Having spent so much time out there the last two years rock climbing and camping, I figured our friends would enjoy the quiet solitude, campfire, and starry nights.  I guess I was wrong.

Although we locked down the date over 4 months ago, our small circle of friends all lead very busy lives.  Like clockwork, we got our first call Tuesday night -- the wife was sick and they were staying home.  We got our second call soon afterwards -- there was some volunteer work that randomly planned some training this weekend.  And with 4 of the 10 people cancelling, the others decided it would be no fun as a partial group.

Frankly?  I couldn't care less!  I've spent more than my fair share of nights alone in Joshua Tree, staring into a fire and enjoying the alone time...  of course, I was very excited to share the beauty of this place with our friends, but getting to spend the weekend alone with my wife was a perfectly acceptable replacement.  

Friday was spent simply walking around the park, enjoying the "nature loops" setup by the park service.  Every 20ft or so, a new sign would point out plants and animals and give you some background on the area you're in.  I always hated History class, but there's something different about actually seeing history.  Seeing relics of the past (including a handful of pictographs), reminded me of my time growing up in Northern Virginia -- a place littered with hands-on American History.  We finished the day doing a 90ft climb to the top of a rock to watch the sunset.  Afterwards, we drove into town to find the best in small-town dining: Applebee's.

Saturday was full of bouldering.  My good friend (and very good climber) Aron joined us for the day.  My wife is a great encourager and she enjoys watching us climb.  (I'll spare you the rest of the details as I can see my blog starting to become dreadfully unbalanced with climbing posts).  The day was capped off with a big campfire, some roasted chicken breasts, a big bottle of Fat Tire, and a great chat with my lady-friend.

We climbed a bit more Sunday morning before heading back to LA.  Once home, my wife left for her mother's as I prepared for a week-long work trip to San Francisco.  Although my trip was a productive one, there's something jarring to the soul when you experience such a drastic change in mindsets.  One day you're sitting beside a fire, bundled up in a big poofy coat and beanie, staring at a sky lit up like a Christmas tree ... the next, you're dealing with cab lines, TSA, and expense reports.  I guess that's why we take pictures.

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Posted 1 year ago